It’s actually quite old for a blog post – over three and a half years old. Since then, quite a few new adult women/teenaged boys stories have popped up all over the internet, both news items and comments. And the picture is becoming familiar.
Like: The women who can do serial boys, do. They may not yet get up to hundreds or thousands, but it’s not from trying – for that you need to be able to put together a harem, and men’s egos make it rather hard for them to willingly put up with each other for a moment with the alpha female.
Like: Not every boy is willing. While I’m not one who believes that a stiffie means a man want’s to *&@# a woman (sometimes it happens for no reason, sometimes a man needs to piss and the stiffie adds pipe length to help hold it in a few more minutes, sometimes we get stiff AGAINST our wishes, etc.), there’s still the issue of the willingness of the boy. Remember, we’re talking about a society that shames people who don’t jump at the chance to fixate on someone of the opposite sex (or at least someone who seems to want it…).
Like: Boys know enough to keep silent, especially if you choose carefully. Indeed, one of the more interesting thing about the postings is how many people kept their conquests/”conquests” (depending on whom you talk to, let’s not forget) quiet. Not like you’d want your favorite teacher/cougar/older-hottie to get in trouble and cut off your access to her, after all…,
Basically, it seems the major difference is that women haven’t been in a position to be sexually demanding without punishment, shame AND ostracization until recently. And I believe that the change has something to do with the sexualization of older women which has been happening over the past twenty years.
Think of it: if you’re going to raise the nationwide de facto age of consent to eighteen (including the demonizing of relationships between those a couple years separate when they cross that age), you gotta eroticize SOMEONE. And if a twenty-four year old man who’s making something of himself can’t woo a sixteen year old with the idea of making her his helpmeet and wife (I suggest you look through your own family tree, I’m sure you’ll find women who married at a younger age to older men), might as well give him the thirty-four year old divorcee whose peak breeding years have passed her by and thus may be more of a carefree lay in the hay (if they’re not panicking because they keep hearing a “tick tick tick” in their loins).
Of course, that leaves our precious boys open to seduction by older, sexually needy women. (Mostly) women still in their reproductive prime, may I add….
Maybe we should remove our assumption of women as pure until soiled by contact by men. Then we’d have to deal with these issues in a better way than by panicking over a rising age of consent that threatens to remake us into an Islamic nation without the religious comforts of conversion.
(More later, on what I think is REALLY happening here. And it’s not something people are talking about EXCEPT for those who wish to deny it.)